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Wearing leather on leather with a white leather prencil skirt and a pink tailored leather jacket, red Gloria Vanderbilt pumps and a taupe Jaeger leather tote and long floral scarf that picks up the white, red and pink of the outfit.

Skirt and pantsuits seem like a great idea to wear in a corporate or very conservative work environment. But is it really your best and safest choice when you are in midlife? Many stylists say “No, go for an unmatched suit instead.” This post covers why and how to loose your fear of unmatching your suits.

Contents
  1. Are you aware of the messages a suit sends when you are over 40?
  2. Go for an unmatched suit instead
  3. How to wear a suit when you don’t own one
  4. Outfit inspiration of unmatched
  5. Further ideas for great unmatched ensembles
  6. A dress with jacket can substitute a suit

Are you aware of the messages a suit sends when you are over 40?

I had an important meeting at work for which I had to “dress up”. When you are a regular reader of my blog, you may know that I am not a big fan of regular suits. On young women, they read mature, professional. However, on us over 40, a real suit easily reads conservative, old fashioned. Unfortunately, these attributes are also often associated with not being up-to-date and not being creative, and past your prime. These things are nothing we want to be associated with. Thus, women over 40 have to be creative to convey the message

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stylish woman in unmatched suit
Unmatched suit with Ann Taylor blazer, Halogen skirt, GNW tight, Harley Davidson motorcycle booties, pearl barrette, and Prada bag (all own)

 

Go for an unmatched suit instead

It’s unfair, isn’t it? Thus, I paired my white blazer with my tweed skirt that has some white and teal accents in the otherwise black fabric. I added a teal cashmere wool mix sweater which is considered work appropriate in cold climate regions in winter. Yes, and it was really cold! We had another cold snap. It just missed 40 below zero by a small margin.

 

style book author in fake skirt suit

beautiful Prada bag

over 50 years old stylist in winter work outfit with white blazer and gray skirt
Outfit details: Ann Taylor blazer, Halogen tweed skirt, college Tee, GNW tight, Harley Davidson booties, and Prada satchel

 

At work, I slipped in my pumps that I brought in my a shoes bag in my inside my bag. Because of the need to schlep shoes back and forth in winter, and to have a cardigan handy when it gets chilly in the evening in summer most of my bags are huge.

 

How to wear a suit when you don’t own one

There are these professional events when you have to wear a suit. When these occasions just occur twice a months or so, you probably don’t want to invest in an entire wardrobe of costumes and pantsuits. Closet space is expensive real estate. Suits are expensive when they are high quality and classic. You have to style with trends look modern in a suit, to not look old, boring, old-fashioned and so Old Lady when you are over 40.

But who wants to invest into these items when one can only get so few wear out of them? Unmatching the suit is one solution that gives you some extra wear when you own an ensemble. Otherwise, create one out of the pants/skirts and blazers in your closet.

Another tip is to go for unmatched suits. It permits you to look different at the various meetings. Why is this important? Well, it conveys the message that you are creative and have ideas, and that you are on top of things.

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I have no clue why men can wear the same suit-tie combo over and over and nobody would think of them as boring, old-fashioned and non-creative. Instead, they are considered as being stable and reliable. Why are these differences in judgement?

 

Outfit inspiration of unmatched pink suit

I found this pink skirt and leather motor cycle jacket at a different visits in my favorite consignment store in town. Pink is one of the colors I like to wear in spring and summer so I tried them on. They have a perfect fit, and so they came into my closet. They look great together as it is a monochromatic look sort of. The recipe is to go for different texture. The smooth leather and weave of the tweed do the trick. You can read more about how to create a monochromatic look at the link.

 

fashion blogger in monochromatic work outfit with unmatched suit

outfit details

style blogger in fake suit for work
Outfit details: Banana Republic skirt with Newport News biker leather jacket, GNW Luxe sweater, LV scarf, barrette, Kieselstein Cord belt and buckle and Salvadore Ferragamo pumps (all own)

 

Further ideas for great unmatched ensembles

While going for a monochromatic look is the easiest, other nice options are classics like a navy blazer with a gray skirt, a plaid blazer with a matching skirt or vice versa. Swap plaid for floral in summer.

professional skirt and blazer outfit at author reception
Ann Taylor blazer with GNW sweater, Burberry skirt, opera length pearl necklace, Ivanka Trump pumps and structured bag (all own)

 

stylist in black skirt with blue blazer separtes

fashion book author in business casual unmatch suit
GNW polka dot cardigan worn as top under lines steal blue blazer with black skirt, Kieselstein Cord belt and buckle, structured bag, D&GM sunglasses, pearls, and L.K. Bennett pumps

 

A dress with jacket can substitute a suit

In summer, it is often a great choice to ditch the skirt suit for a tailored work dress. It provides thermal comfort at the meeting in AC and still remains bearable when you have to walk a couple of blogs for the luncheon with the group.

 

stylist in jersey wrap dress with delicate print
Samantha Brown jersey wrap dress with a delicate print c/o HSN, accessorized with wooden watch c/o Jord, worn with own Dr. Scholl wedges, Jones New York cardigan, and Kate Moss for Longchamp satchel for a classic ageless work outfit

 

Try Out Everything with Everything

Keep your eyes open and get inspired. Sometimes an outfit idea just occurs by accident. Here an example from my own experience. This skirt is the one I bought in Boulder where I met with Ana from Mrs American Made. By accident when hanging my new skirt back into my closet, I saw that the tweed has about similar colors and the same size of structure than my tweed motorcycle jacket. Well, a fake skirt suit was born. I had this outfit in mind for a couple of days and when a meeting was on my work schedule I finally wore it.

My take-home message for you: Don’t stop at the obvious. Try out everything with everything and go for what the wrongest way looks right. Or should I say, the rightest way wrong.

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Outfits look great and are head turning when they look right, but are unexpected. Of course, its a balance act. Styling is all about balance, gals. 😉 Even when you wear a real ensemble, you have to pay attention to how to wear a suit and not look old.

 

stylist in jacket with skirt look

fashion blogger in business casual skirt suit
Outfit details: Statement necklace with matching bracelet, Jacket Society tweed motorcycle jacket, GNW Luxe sweater, Hermes collier de chien bangle, Halogen tweed skirt, GNW tights, topaz bracelet, and Harley Davidson booties (all own)

 

If your work dress code requires a real suit, you may be interested in reading how to have corporate style without looking boring.

Do you switch shoes at work in winter? What do you wear to an important meeting at the office in winter? What are your challenges to not look old fashioned/conservative when you have to dress up at work? Let me know, I am curious.

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