Beach weddings are informal to a certain degree unless a dress code is given in the invitation. Attending nuptials on the coast can be costly if you have to fly there. However, the investment in the necessary wedding-guest attire is also part of your summer weekend and vacation wardrobe. Read how you can dress your best for a beach wedding, including shoes and accessories, and what to consider concerning thermal comfort, local weather, the venue, and guests’ Dos and Don’ts.
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Dress Code for Beach Wedding Invitation
A beach wedding invitation without suggested dress code or casual dress code is the most desirable (even if you live far from a beach) outfit-wise. You can wear the purchases also as warm climate vacation wardrobe and on weekends in summer. All you need is a festive beach dress, matching jewelry, flat sandals, clutch, cover-up (if it is a gray, chilly, windy day), sunglasses, and maybe a hat.
It’s also important to consider the vibe of the venue when choosing your outfit. For instance, if the wedding is hosted at a high-end location like those in Newport Beach, you may want to elevate your look while still keeping it breezy and beach-appropriate. Similarly, a wedding at a rustic beachfront location, like those found along the Outer Banks, might call for a more relaxed yet still polished ensemble to match the natural surroundings.
Beach Wedding Guests Dos and Don’ts
Note: If the invitation asks for formal wedding weding attire follow thru. Check whether it is on a beach front deck to have the right shoes.
Avoid Anything That Makes You Look Old
When creating your beach-wedding outfit, resist to go for anything flower-power. The hippy look had had its time, abut it well passed its prime. Today, this look just looks Old Lady and ridiculous on any woman over 50. We don’t want to relive our youth again! We love who we are now!
Therefore, go for a modern just-right-now look.
Are wondering what fashion makes you look old? Be aware that beauty habits can age you as well.
Look for a Beach Dress that Permits Wearing a Bra
Go for a maxi or high-low hem dress that still allows you to wear a bra and shapewear. Even when you will never wear that dress again with a bra and shapewear, at the wedding you should. You want your girls sit in the right place on all the photos that will be taken.
Here are some examples of beach dresses that have either a built-in bra or work with a bra.
Dress with the Local Weather Conditions in Mind
Choose your dress with the see-breeze in mind. A wide skirt might look like you set the sails. Moreover, it is hard to walk in under windy conditions.
Furthermore, you should consider that the ocean reflects the harmful UV radiation on a sunny day. When your skin easily burns, pick chic sun protective beach clothing, sunglasses, and sun cream.
Here is a collection of affordable sun-safe beach dresses, hats and wraps in an evergreen classic style.
Tip: When you are a guest at a beach or outdoor wedding in Alaska your have to bring pieces to layer and shoes with thermal insulation at the end of August.
How to Accessorize Your Beach Wedding Guest Outfit
All accessories should match the vibe of the dress.
Best Beach Jewelry
A Bohemian Style dress looks great with wood or ethnic jewelry. A uni-color classic or casual style dress is the perfect canvas for colorful sea glass jewelry. A romantic outfit asks for small charm-necklaces or pearls.
Add only one trendy item to avoid becoming the source for laughter at future family reunions. A straw clutch looks great floral or ethnic print dresses. A small cross-body bag works well on a striped dress.
Crew necks and bootnecks look great with long pendant necklaces. V-necks with a pendant necklace framed by the V. Round cleavage asks for beaded necklaces.
When you wear your hair down, adding a hat, long earrings, and sunglasses is too much. Skip the hat or the long earrings.
Tip: On a windy day, protect your hair from friction with a chic updo.
Clutches and Bags
A typical beach bag size is too large. Go for a small shoulder bag or clutch. Here an investment piece would be a min-leather bag that just holds you keys,m sunglasses, and phone.
A uni color canvas bag looks great on a printed dress. When you don’t go for a classic straw hat, a straw clutch is an option.
Tip: Go for a different material with the bag and sandals.
Tip: When you like to take your sandals off to walk over the wet sand, look for a mini beach bag that is large enought to hold your sandals.
Best Footwear to Dress Your Best at a Beach Wedding
Beach weddings require comfy thongs, flat mules or strappy sandals with either embellishment, semi-precious stones, Swarovski crystals, or a metallic tone. Since you can wear them on weekends in summer, you can invest some money.
Tip: Make sure you break the shoes in prior to the wedding because open blisters on a salty beach hurt!
Outfit Ideas for Beach Wedding Guest
The following photos provide outfit ideas for attending a nuptial at the shore.
When you liked the outfit recipes of this post, and want recipes for all kind of dressing situation in midlife, buy my book How to Dress for Success in Midlife.
Further Readings on Various Wedding Etiquettes
Are you invited to another type of wedding? Here you can find
- How to dress for a civil wedding
- Looks for a casual afternoon wedding reception (aka student wedding party)
- Winter wedding
Curious, what Alaskans wear at their outdoor wedding?
Photos of me: G. Kramm
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