How to have great ageless style in lace

Lace was for the Aristocrats and rich merchants

In the Old World, lace was one of the first status symbols in fashion. Brüssels’ lace was famous. My grandma even had to learn in boarding school how to make lace! She taught me how to make eyelets and some other cousins of lace. I really loved her teaching me these skills.

Lace became a feminine thing

When I was a kid, lace was associated with brides and as decoration on little girls’ Sundays best. I had a brown velvet dress with a lace collar.

#laceover40 Mature woman wearing ageless style in lace
Coach striped summer bag, eShakti lace dress, Michael Kors sandals, Ray Ban sunglasses, statement necklace (all own) and wood watch c/o Jord

Lace – today’s classic trend

Now flash forward in time. Lace is a big trend right now.

  • At any age, lace looks best as the statement itself, i.e. without any froufrou. Streamlined cuts look great in lace like the sheath dress in the OOTD or a lace pencil skirt. Other cuts to look ageless in lace are A-cut skirts, shift dresses, collarless tops, or lined jackets. A twenty something may pull off a lace slip dress and look awesome, but it is a risky balancing act. Lace on a slip dress can read slip.
  • Go for a classic length, i.e. about 3-4 inches (7.5-10 cm) above the knee is the shortest hem length for an ageless look.
  • Go for matte lace. Lace in silk and cotton are a great choice as it looks high quality and not cheap. The lace should not be shiny as anything shiny could look fattening.
  • Watch the color of the lace and the color of the lining underneath. A black or red lace dress with nude lining are for cocktail parties, while an all navy, all gray or all black lace sheath dress can even work for work. Navy with beige or winter white underneath can look very sophisticated. Think of the Duchess of Cambridge in her blue lace dress with nude L.K. Bennetts. What a classic look!
  • Lace ruffles, lace tired skirts, lace tops or lace jackets without any underlining, lace in candy or baby pastel colors, or lace with your skin as background are all no-nos when you strive for ageless style.
  • When wearing lace style it with sleek tailored pieces. Unless you are going for an eclectic style don’t wear heavy wool sweaters or wool blazers with lace.

Here are visual inspirations how to wear lace in fashion over 40.

#over50fashion mature woman in all black work outfit with lace This example shows an eShakti lace pencil skirt styled with a sleek tailored silk Jones New York shirt, Anne Klein slingbacks, Burberry bag, Hermes collier de chien bangle, DIY bangle, and Paloma Picasso sunglaases (all own) for an ageless classic look that also would work at the office in summer when the dress code allows sleeveless tops

#fashionover50 mature woman in a little white dress with large eyelet type lace in the back This Alexander Wang little white dress shows a variation of eyelets in the back. The shirt-dress cut gives this dress a modern look. Styled with Hermes enamel bangles, Seiko watch, Hermes collier de chine bangle, Longchamp satchel, Michael Kors sandals (all own)

#over50style mature woman in dinner outfit with lace This long lace dress with denim jacket and statement belt is an ageless look for going out on the weekend. Styled with Hermes collier de chien belt, Great Northwest denim jacket and three strings pearl necklace (all own)

#styleover40 Mature woman in an ageless lace dinner dress This black lace low-high hem dress is an example for an ageless classic cocktail dress styled with metal bag, statement necklace,  and Neo Tango T-strap sandals (all own)

#fashionover50 mature woman in ageless style in lace Ray Ban sunglasses, eShakti dress, Coach bag, and Michael Kors sandals (all own)

#over40fashion mature woman in a lace sheath dress eShakti lace sheath dress with Ray Ban sunglasses, Coach bag, Michael Kors sandals (all own) and wood sports watch with Swarovski crystals c/o Jord

Do you like lace? Is lace part of your style? How do you wear your lace? Let me know by email, I am curious.

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