Tomboy in skirt as a kid
When I was a kid, my sister and I liked to build dams in the drainage digs down to the southeast of the village we grew up in. These channels were anywhere between 1.5 ft (0.46 m) to 3 ft wide. The water depth was about a foot (0.3 m) to a bit over 1.5 ft deep. The digs were about one yard below the level of the adjacent grassland. To get into the area, we had to climb thru a fence at the side of a bridge and then walk down along a large channel. One only could cross the large channel under neath the bridge as it was channeled there to just 2 ft or so. Doing so was a piece of cake even when wearing a skirt. Then we had to walk along the trench to one of the inflows of small trenches. They were small enough to built a dam that would hold. While walking along a trench, we couldn’t see what’s on the meadows. However, someone on the meadows could see the top of our heads.
One day in fall, we came to enhance the height of a dam that we had built the day before. The water had piled up behind the dam over night. It was clear that it would spill over the dam in the following night if we wouldn’t increase the dam’s height. We were working on putting large twigs into the dig’s bed when with a sudden a man yelled at us from far behind “Hey boys, stop building dams. It’s forbidden. It will flood the meadows.” We jumped up, I jumped over the dig towards my sister to run away.
Then the guy saw that I was wearing a skirt. He realized that we were girls. He yelled at us “Tomboys, pull down the dam or I will tell your parents. You should be ashamed building dams as girls. That’s what boys do. And then even in a skirt! I will come back in 10 minutes. Then you have that damned dam down.” His voice was very angry. He then turned towards the only place where we could leave the fenced in area we were in. “How the heck did he know we were down here.” my sister asked.
We went back down into the dig to destroy our dam. I pulled a key stone of our construction. A big fat frog jumped right at me. I screamed and my sister jumped aside. The piled up water flew fast thru the place where the stone was before and pulled the dam down slowly. “I wonder how that frog got into the dam.” “You better wonder how we pass that man” my sister replied. “Let’s go. The water will do the rest. We’ll go over the fence at the other side. Let’s walk along this dig with our torso and head down. So he can’t see us before, we reach the fence. That macho will not expect me climbing over the fence in a skirt, right?”
Clothing preferences are about attitude
My sister always preferred wearing pants when she was a kid. I never saw a reason not to wear skirts when we did all kind of tomboy activities. Why was that? As a kid I had no idea and never thought about it. I just wore what I felt great in and what I liked wearing. After I was allowed to pick my own clothes. Maybe the attitude a woman can do all things a guy can do, but in heels? Including wearing jeans or wearing black and leather as a toddler?
Tomboy outfit over 50
Now in my fifties, I still enjoy doing things that were considered “men’s stuff” when I grew up. Science, for instance. However, I still love clothes that clearly indicate I’m a woman. I once in a while like to dress in a Tomboy look, but all pieces must clearly have a female cut. The trench coat, for instance, is tailored at the waist. So are the blazer and button-down shirt. Should women over 50 don a Tomboy look? Why not?! It’s about confidence. sometimes it helps when you have to put your foot down.
Did you wear skirts or pants as a kid? Did you enjoy doing “boys’ stuff?” Let me know, I’m curious.
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Top of the World Style Winner
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Kileen’s looks with her pink coat became my favorite looks of last week’s party. She is the blogger at Cute and Little. Doesn’t she look cute in this pink coat with tan skirt and over-the-knee boots? The color combination is so cool. <3
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