When you are invited to a Diwali party or bought tickets to attend a Diwali celebration for the first time, you wonder about what to wear to a Diwali event, and whether there is a dress code. This post addresses these questions for Diwali parties or celebrations in US college towns.
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Dress up for Diwali
Indians are known for being very fashionable and up-to-date on the newest trends. Thus, when celebrating the Festival of Lights, it’s a great opportunity to dress up in the newest trend. This means that you can do just that, dress up. However, when there is still time enough to order something special, checkout the latest designs and styles. Sure, shararas and gararas are the only things in Indian traditional fashion that can never go out of fashion.
What to Wear at Diwali as a Men
At Diwali parties in college towns, most men wear casual party outfits. However, you can see Indian men or men married with an Indian woman wearing everything from a plain western jeans and shirt look over Indo Western outfits to traditional Indian looks from various regions. You can see men in sherwani, kurta pajamas or a Jodhpuri suit, and occasionally a Nehru jacket.
What to Wear at Diwali as a Women
Most Indian women wear sarees. Only a few of them dress in kurtis, salwar kameez, anarkali suit or lehengas. It’s rare to see one of them wearing a head-to-toe western outfit. Non-Indian women wear something along the lines of a fancy dinner party or an upscale restaurant. Some wear traditional Indian clothes mixed with western items like a global trend inspired Indian embroidered blouse with skinnies outfit or wear a fancy panjeree. Once in a while, you see one in a saree.
When in Doubt, Wear Something New
It’s a tradition to wear something new. Doing so is related to Diwali indicating the beginning of a new year. Thus, you don’t want to wear something that has old (painful) memories of the past. In other words dressing in new clothing has some symbolic. It’s a nice gesture to commemorate this tradition when you attend Diwali. When you follow my blog already for a while, this tradition once stressed me out what to wear for Diwali. I had nothing new and my friends expected me to attend in traditional clothing.
Note you can wear festive western attire as well. Again, best wear something new that your friends haven’t seen before.
See the celebration party below. The majority of the attendees wear Fairbanks Formal.
Sarees are always appropriate, and you can find affordable silk sarees in fashion colors even in the US. There are many youTube videos illustrating how to wrap a saree. When you are invited you most like can ask your friend to help you putting it on.
Alternatively, you can easily buy 6 yards of sari fabric and hem the sides. When you can’t sew a blouse, wear a cropped top or halftee underneath (see photos below). Since it was a cold day, I wore my halftee with long sleeves underneath instead of a matching blouse. If you want to sew a matching traditional blouse, here is an easy-to-make sewing pattern I have used. Use an A-line maxi skirt as base to wrap the saree. Then accessorize with necklaces and bangles. Make two big arm parties of pieces (favorably in gold hues) that match with the outfit.
I styled the look with a statement belt and ethnic style jewelry. I added my metal bag that was a find on a market in Morocco in the late 80s. You have seen this bag already in many posts here on the blog. It sort of goes with everything.
Can I Wear Black on Diwali?
Diwali is about fun and happiness. Thus, would it be inappropriate to wear black, which is associated with mourning in many western cultures? Diwali is a special, auspicious event. Black is a special festive color. Go for traditional wear, if possible.
Stylist’s tip: Black is the most suitable color to wear on Diwali.
Browse thrift stores. They often have ethnic clothing around these traditional holidays. Also you can find great pieces in stores specialized in Asian products of all kinds. StyleWe is a site where young designers sell their collections. Occasionally, there are Indian/Bollywood inspired clothes. The advantage is that these pieces can be worn beyond Diwali.
Examples of Affordable Sarees
Easy-to-wear Beautiful Lehengas
Diwali Outfits for Men
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