Go beyond the bad feelings of hand-me downs
We are all about being friendly to our environment, and using our resources consciously. Having grown up in the 70s or 80s, recycling has become our second nature. When we had siblings, and were the younger or not as tall as the other sibling, we wore hand-me downs. Of course, we often hated these hand-me downs for various reasons. For those, who were fortunate (?) not to have siblings: The friends of our siblings knew that we wore a hand-me down of our sibling. Often they were also our friends. So our friends also knew it. Furthermore, the items may have even already not It anymore. Thus, they made us out among the It crowd of our classmates or whatever group was important to us. If that weren’t all bad enough, our sibling’s and our style were different. Just we felt like Judy in disguise. At least, this was the case with the hand-me downs from my younger, but taller sis. The worst part, mom insisted on wearing them until the stuff fell apart or wouldn’t fit any longer, what seemed like an eternity to my “teenager me”.
Learn to love second hand
Today second hand can bring you things that you couldn’t afford otherwise. Being a state employee, I can’t afford to spend a thousand dollar on a pair of shoes, two thousand or more on a hand bag, or $500 on a pair of jeans. However, I like a Chanel bag, or Valentino rock studs, or this seasons It shoe from Gucci like the next gal. So what? I go for second hand fashion items on eBay, or in online stores that specialize in consignment of high fashion and browse the local thrift and consignment stores. To learn how to score high on eBay and save time shopping consignment stores see the linked posts.
Second time around is such a great concept! One woman’s trash can be the other woman’s treasure. It is amazing what you can find second hand. Sometimes the item has been worn only once. I got a pair of silver Ralph Lauren pointy toe pumps for less than $70. The previous owner had only worn them for a photo! The sole didn’t even have a scratch. In principle, they were brand new! the photos below show shoes that are a second time around.
Valentino Rock Studs found on eBay
eShakti lace pencil skirt with BCBG belt, Moda International top, thrifted BCBG studded pumps (all own) and wooden sports watch c/o Jord
In a local consignment store, I found great sheath dresses, skirts and blazers in my size. Military wives and women, who get an assignment in a warmer climate sell the clothes that they won’t/can’t wear there anymore for the next three years. Also incoming military wives and women sell they warmer climate summer clothes because they anticipate the summers to be much colder than they are. May be our Interior summers are actually much colder for them than they feel to us who are used to the climate. When I arrive in Seattle in winter, I feel like I am thawing, upon arrival in Denver, I feel like I am melting. 😉 The photos below show some outfits with consigned items.
Jones New York striped cardigan, Ralph Lauren polka dot pleated skirt, Brooks Brothers cashmere sweater (all thrift finds), Kieselstein Cord belt and buckle, Prada bag, L.K. Bennett pumps (all own)
Ballroom dance dress (second hand), Very Fine Dance Shoes sandals (all own), fishnet tights c/o No nonsense
Do you wear items that are a second time around? Do you give great items you don’t wear anymore to consignment? Do you consign to stretch your budget and thrift to stay on budget? Do you browse second hand stores on a regular basis? If so, what to you look for? I am curious, send me an email.
Ageless Style linkup
Welcome to the Ageless Style Linkup party. Let’s see your ageless style outfits with outfits that are a second time around.
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Ana ~ Mrs. American Made bloglovin
Daenel ~ Living outside the stacks blog
Debbie ~ Fashion Fairy Dust instagram
Diane ~ Fashion on the 4th floor blog
Jennie ~ A Pocketful of Polka Dots blog
Nicole ~ High Latitude Style instagram
Shelly ~ The Queen in Between instagram
Tania ~ 50 Is Not Old blog
Yvonne ~ Funky Forty blog
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