What to wear to the office holiday party

#midlifestyle women in office holiday party attire

Stay within the office’s dress code at the holiday party

Office parties are tricky with respect to the dress code. Thus, keep the rule

if it works for a date night out, it’s not for the office.

Yes, even when or especially when it is a corporate cocktail party. Stop! Let’s do one step at a time. There are corporate and festive office cocktail parties. A general rule is to

stay within the broad lines of the office dress code’s limits with respect to showing skin. Skin in the sense of toes, heels, cleavage, belly, legs, and arms.

#maturestyle details of posh office party outfit
Zoom-in on the Chanel-jacket type fabric of the blazer and the DIY statement necklace

Pay attention to the invitation. Often it has a hint for the dress code. If so, go with it to dress for success.

What to wear to a festive office party

Let’s start with the festive office party because of the holiday season. Here you can go for sequins, metallic, and embellishments. Even a cocktail dress that does not show too much skin works. When it is strapless, wear it with a matching bolero, thin fine fabric stole, or a nice leather jacket. Black slim pants with a metallic, embellished or sequin top are also fine. What about a sequin or brocade skirt? A holiday dress, would also meet the dress code for a festive office cocktail party.

#midlifestyle Mature woman wearing corporate cocktail holiday party look
GAP little black dress with Ann Taylor blazer featuring a Chanel-jacket type fabric, DIY statement blackened silver necklace, GNW tights and Harley Davidson stiletto booties (all own) and layering top c/o Adea

Go for a big clutch or nice evening bag (see photo below), i.e. something different than your usual day bag. Embellished stilettos or open toe pumps fit the bill. In cold climate regions, have a large satchel to carry your shoes and a clutch inside that you place on the table. Leave the satchel with the coat clerk if possible.

accessories cross-body clutch
Amber convertible cross-body minibag/clutch c/o Olivia + Joy. Detaching the strap makes this mini bag a perfect clutch for a festive office cocktail party

What not to wear to a festive office holiday party

Stay away from informal fabrics, daytime outfits, corporate clothes, suits, or anything denim. You are never wrong with a little black dress. But if you go for one, stay out of the crowd by festive rhinestone jewelry. Also steer away from anything that is too short or too long (e.g. maxi dress), shows too much cleavage (back or front, it doesn’t matter). Recall the attendees are your colleagues. Thus, try to still look professional.

Corporate office party

The corporate office cocktail party reads more or less gray or dark corporate style as foundation given a twist with jewelry and/or accessories as shown in the first two photos of this post. One statement piece of jewelry only. Avoid double blink. In other words, stay on the road of classics with a twist.

#fashionover40 woman in LBD and stiletto booties
GAP LBD with Harley Davidson stiletto booties, GNW opaque tights, DIY silver necklace, H-bracelt (all own), and layering top c/o Adea for a corporate office cocktail party

Tights are a must! Sheer as well as opaque work depending on climate. Cover your arms in agreement with your office’s dress code. A little black dress in a classic cut is always a good idea. In winter, wearing a layering top underneath is acceptable in cold climate regions. Straight skirts with a feminine blouse, or straight slacks in gray or black with a shell and bolero or Chanel-type jacket, or a classic shift dress with patent leather belt and a statement brooch are save options too.

Go for closed toe pumps. Anything less would look too casual with tights on. In cold climate regions, classic boots will be acceptable on cold winter days with snow outside. Stiletto booties are risky, but may work when they are the only “twist” in the look, i.e. the statement.

What not to wear to a corporative office holiday party

Again stay away from anything informal like knits, jersey, too short or too much skin. A shiny clutch in silver, gold or patent leather is perfect. Any bright color is risky.

Further “work appropriate” holiday outfit ideas

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What kind of office holiday party do you do at work? Do you go? Let me know your style challenges by email, so I can help you.

Have fun at the party, and have a designated driver or take a cab. 🙂

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Photos: G. Kramm, N. Mölders

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